Thankful Thought

God will never lead you without equipping you.

In life, some seasons are long and some are short. Change is inevitable. Personally, even though some seasons seemed like nothing,  it was actually something that would help me down the line. Never doubt your struggle. Never doubt your good and bad moments. Be thankful that the difficult times made you stronger and resilient. Be thankful for the good times. God has equipped every step of the way. He is faithful to His promises. He is full of mercy in the moments of rebellion. No lesson goes to waste in God’s eyes. So don’t be ashamed. Be thankful.




Fight for Your Life!

Fight through the sludge of adversity.

Yes, bad things happen to good people.

Yes, you will get discouraged, overwhelmed, and disappointed.

But that does not mean you stay there.

You fight the good fight.

Keep moving forward.

Keep persevering.

You will get there.

Just don’t give up.




The Skies Are Changing

On the horizon of a new beginning, the atmospheric skies are changing .

The blueprint you anticipated has flipped.

What you desired is not what is in store.

The strategy has changed but the goal is unchanged.

It may seem like failure but as you look up, the sun shines brightly.

The skies are changing but God is still saying “I am still rooting for you.”

You look down to earth, look inside yourself, and move forward.

Heaven is working on your behalf.




Living Life

Have you ever had moments where you are just mentally and physically worn out? Like you are just tired and numb to everything? You go through the motions but you are still numb?

And suddenly there is a HONK! A loud sound to shake your entire being.

You wake up! Your body surges with life and action. You are motivated!

A honk can be the wake-up call you need to keep going and keep fighting.

So friends, keep going and keep fighting.




Life As Singing Bianca

One of the most important songs that can ever be sung is the National Anthem. It is quite an honor and privilege to sing those words. Yours truly will be singing this anthem for their law school graduation. It is an exciting feeling but also a nervous feeling.

Many friends were surprised that I could sing. Even a friend was like “ohh look at Beyonce who’s singing the Anthem, I am looking forward to this.” OR “you are gonna sang that song”

Well ya’ll I don’t have the Beyonce, Whitney Houston, Lady Gaga power in my voice. I have always struggled with my voice because it does not have the “Black Soul with the crazy riffs.” It is clear, pure, and sweet tone (no riffs). But over time, I have learned there are many ways to sing a song. My voice is unique and God gave it to me to share. I was chosen to sing my interpretation of the National Anthem and that is what I will do.




Affirm and Believe

It is easy to say what is going wrong and get worried.  It is easy to to say “I wish this and that.” It is easy to see and envy another’s “wonderful life.” I say this because my mind swirls just like this. So I have to tell myself, STOP. You are only destroying your progress and growth. Don’t grow faint and lost in what you don’t have. You  know what you and I need to do? You and I need to be thankful for the good. There is potential in and around us.

Affirm what you believe is true.

Yes, affirm how far you have come. Affirm the good in your life. Affirm your progress. Affirm that fact that you are alive and breathing on your own. The key term is AFFIRM.




Believe In Your Well-Being


Fluff is NOT needed except for desserts and pillows.

I have learned it is important to be selfish especially if it has to do with your well-being. I know I am being redundant but it is vital to take care of your mind, body, and spirit. 

When you have your standards, keep them. Don’t let it waiver.




Believe In Yourself

Your identity was created and formed by the Creator of the Universe.  Let no one tell you otherwise.  You have purpose. Yes, you evolve with life experiences. You grow for the better, not for worse. A different season may require a different version of you but never lose your essence.

Personally, when I moved to Jacksonville and starting a new chapter in law school, I promised myself to not be swept away. I wanted to still be Bianca..but a better version. I did not want my faith in God to waiver,  lose my morals and values, and lose my personality. God fearfully and wonderfully made me genuine and set apart. I am still Bianca but I am a better version not a different version.

So I encourage you to change, grow, and thrive as a better version of you. You are wanted and you are strategically placed on the Earth for a reason. Never lose who you are.




A Word from Mama B!

Can Mama B be real with you?

There was once a time where peoples’ opinions mattered to me. I wrote a plural possessive because it was true. I allowed people to rule my life. My well-being was a cacophony of opinions that did not matter in the end. I was afraid of being hated by people but at what cost to my own sanity? I was lost because I did not use my voice.

REAL TALK: There will be people in your life, in your circle who wish for your demise. There are people who are toxic and only bring negativity.

My advice: Make sure to hear YOUR voice. Eliminate the leeches that suck the life out of you. Shake the dust off your feet. Seek advice from the people who give your tough love and have character that you gravitate towards.

I will admit: Your friend list may be smaller but that is not a bad thing. Have a quality of friends than a cacophony quantity of instability.  Also, make sure to hear your own voice too




Blissful Words of Truth

Me Too” may seem like two words.

But to many people, it was facing and conquering fear.

Whether it was a day or years ago, the pain and scar exists.

It was probably risky and scary to admit.

But you are not alone.

I say:  “Me Too.”

BUT, you and I are stronger than what tried to break us.

Our voice matter.

Never stop telling your story and speaking your truth.

Fear will not have the final word.